Happy New Year

Here it is: the end of 2009.  And what a year it has been for many of you.  I know that for me, the publication of my book, Connecting the Dots: Breakthroughs in Communication as Alzheimer's Advances, signifies my own personal breakthrough in realizing a dream.  But writing the book itself doesn't do the trick unless you, the relatives, friends and caregivers of those with advancing Alzheimers, start to use the tools I discovered to connect with your loved ones and re-establish communication.  True, it may be very different from the way you communicated before this disease, but that feeling of sharing the moment with that person is wonderful.  So, in this New Year, resolve to give both you and your loved one the gift of understanding and kindness.

Alzheimer's and Christmas

Christmas can be sad and joyous at the same time.  It may be hard to focus on the postitive when you feel exhausted. Whether your loved one is at home or in an outside residence, include him in the Christmas celebration.  The sparkling lights on the tree, the aroma of dinner, and the singing of Christmas carols may spark your loved one and his memory.  He might just join in. Even if he doesn't, he'll sense that this day is special. Make the connection and cherish the outcome.  A Merry Christmas to all.